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Sunday, August 28, 2011

Life Is Fair


I have slogged for the whole year. No programme, no party, no movie…. Only college, coaching classes and study, study, study. After all these I have just passed. Pritam and his girl friend Tina bunked classes, roamed around, enjoyed life, hardly studied and they both got higher second class in final B.Com. “This is unfair” Tushar groaned.

Our Aparna is beautiful and smart. In spite of studying in medical college she knows cooking, is sociable, but how come we cannot get a suitable alliance for her? We have indicated that we will take care of all the demands placed by the boys’ family. Even then, no success. That tomboyish Minu who has just scraped through B.Sc., wanders about whole day eating pani-puri, bhuttha and stuff like that – an ugly duckling like her got a boy who has passed M.D., the same boy who rejected our Aparna. This is nonsense’ roared Aparna’s mother Gayatri.

Why this? Why me? This is injustice to us, this is not fair, why is God trying our patients, what is my fault? …. We often hear.

Richard Carlson who conducts programmes on Art of Living and enjoying life believes that ‘life is not fair”. It is a fact that everything that happens may not look desirable. If we gracefully accept this reality then only we shall be able to sustain our moral courage. ‘Poor me” ‘Poor fellow’ ‘unlucky guy’, ‘she always suffers’, ‘God is so unkind to them’ and similar words of self pity or so called sympathy for others tend to weaken us. So first thing is to acknowledge that whenever adverse situation is created, it has been planned by Almighty and preprogrammed into our very being. Perhaps God creates certain odd or difficult conditions to train us and increase our coping ability and faith. Our karmic account can be balanced or cleared only by such credits and debits of the blend of good and not so good circumstances. So don’t get elated in good times and don’t feel dejected in difficult times as both are going to pass off. Famous Cricketer Ian Botham has said ‘if you want to succeed, you have to suffer’.
- Pragna Pai

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Name: Dr Pragna Pai
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135, Prabhu Nivas,
Rd. 9A, Wadala, Mumbai, 4000031
Phone Number: 24149072
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  • Ex-Dean, Sheth G.S. Medical college & KEM Hospital
  • Ex-Director, Medical Education & Major Hospitals
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